WHAT IS THE TRUTH?
Sex is a very private and intimate act that brings two people closer together. For most couples, sex is an extremely important part¹ of bonding within the relationship.
A man suffering² from erectile dysfunction (ED) often experiences a significant loss of self-confidence when he is unable to satisfy his own or his partner’s sexual needs. He may feel³ frustrated and humiliated when he cannot initiate or complete sexual intercourse.
For many men, it is extremely difficult to deal with this problem alone—especially while facing a dissatisfied and frustrated partner. In fact, it is believed that 20% of all breakups are caused by erectile dysfunction (ED).
MY PARTNER IS IMPOTENT!
Having an impotent partner is NOT the end of the world. Open communication is key—let him know that you are there to support him emotionally. It’s very difficult for men to overcome the fear and talk about the possibility of being impotent.
Try to help your partner let go of feelings of guilt and embarrassment. Reassure him that you are on his side and willing to be patient without putting pressure on him.
When a man feels that his partner truly stands by him and offers the emotional support he desperately needs, he is more likely to accept the reality of erectile dysfunction (ED) and begin to talk about it openly and honestly. Only then can you find a solution together.
HOW CAN I HELP MY PARTNER?
> Talk about the issue openly and outside the bedroom
> Learn about alternative treatment options
> Find a solution together
> Offer emotional support
> Explore suitable medical treatments as a team
> Patience and a pressure-free environment are essential
References
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Sprecher, S. (2002). Sexual satisfaction in premarital relationships: Associations with satisfaction, love, commitment, and stability. Journal of Sex Research, 39(3), 190–196. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224490209552141
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McCabe, M., Althof, S. E., Assalian, P., Chevret‑Measson, M., Leiblum, S. R., Simonelli, C., & Wylie, K. (2010). Psychological and interpersonal dimensions of sexual function and dysfunction. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 7(1 Part 2), 327–336. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2009.01618.x
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Althof, S. E., O’Leary, M. P., Cappelleri, J. C., Crowley, A. R., Tseng, L.-J., & Collins, S. (2006). Impact of erectile dysfunction on confidence, self‑esteem and relationship satisfaction after 9 months of sildenafil citrate treatment. The Journal of Urology, 176(5), 2132–2137. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.juro.2006.07.019